Dating and Relationships

Now a days it seems that people get to caught up on dating. Well in the past year or so I have come to the realization that there is absolutely no need for trying. What you need to do is just let it happen, and things will come naturally! Don't try to be an ass to her, don't try and impress her, don't wait to text or call her. Just be yourself at all times. Why you ask? Well that's the kicker, If he/she doesn't like you for you and who you are then she clearly is not worth your time. If they think your too clingy because you like to hold hands and kiss and text to much then screw it, they clearly are not meant for you.

If when they are sick and you have just met or started dating or whatever and you offer to come take care of them, make them soup and what not then why is that to much to soon? It's just a genuinely nice offer because you don't want to see them sick! Why do people look to much into things like that?

I think the world has now gotten way to caught up on the fact that you must be fake, an ass, hard to get, or whatever you want to call it these days. I've finally figured out that that is just not necessary, instead you just need to be yourself! No matter who yourself is just be it, because either way down the road they will find out the real you so why hide it in the beginning? Let them like you for you! Not someone that you are not!

Now in my last post i mentioned someone that I was really into and couldn't have. Well I did do what was necessary and I also met someone else. Instead of doing things that I shouldn't of like hiding who I am, I have been honest and straight forward with her from the beginning on who I am and what I am about. Things have been going great too. Hopefully this will continue, also thanks to this fact I've noticed how much easier it is to talk to her and be around her compared to making myself into something I am not!

You may take what I say with a grain of salt but thats ok cause I'm not looking to make you do anything, I am just trying to give advice on things that I have noticed over the past few years that makes a difference in dating. Why hide yourself, let people love you for you! Cause if they don't then it just is not worth it.

I hope this helps with your own little world domination, as it has mine. Besides don't we all know that if we are to dominate another world you must first dominate ones own! =D